A New Path to Ease, Confidence, and Lasting Change
Welcome! I’m Valerie, a Certified Somatic Trauma Practitioner based in Columbus, OH. I work with women and femmes ready to release the weight of past trauma, break free from old patterns, and live a life that feels grounded and fulfilling. If you’re tired of feeling stuck or overwhelmed, I’m here to support you.
My Mission: Personal and Collective Change
Why I Do This Work
I know how it feels to carry the weight of unresolved trauma and wonder if change is even possible. I’ve been there: questioning my worth, struggling with generational patterns, and feeling trapped by societal expectations.
My own healing journey drives everything I do as a coach. Over two decades, I’ve combined somatic embodiment, intuitive practices, and ancestral healing to help women and femmes feel safe in their bodies and empowered in their lives.
Clients often tell me they’ve made more progress in months of working with me than years of traditional therapy. That’s because this work isn’t about masking symptoms—it’s about addressing the whole of who you are to create deep, lasting change.
My Core Values
What I Stand For
Compassionate Accountability:
A supportive, nonjudgmental space to grow, feel seen and heard.
Reclaiming Your Truth:
Let go of societal “shoulds” and generational patterns so you can live life on your terms.
Connection & Community:
Healing happens in safe, supportive spaces. My circles and coaching offer just that.
Integrity:
Honoring your unique pace and needs with honesty and care.
Holistic Healing:
We’ll address emotional, physical, and spiritual growth for lasting transformation.
Sustainability:
You’ll leave with tools to build emotional resilience and self-trust for the long term.
My Story
Hey, I’m Valerie, and if I had to sum myself up, I’d say I’m a rebel at heart—a fierce advocate, and a proud witch, and mamma.
I grew up in a challenging family dynamic with a narcissistic mom and stepdad, family trauma, housing instability, and hardship. As an adult, I experienced domestic violence, multiple sexual assaults, undiagnosed CPTSD and ADHD, and health challenges with cervical cancer and chronic pain.
For years, I struggled with self-doubt, perfectionism, and anxiety. I silently suffered because that’s what moms do right? I tried to “fix” myself, believing I was broken and unlovable. The weight of this nearly broke and took my life.
The journey to reclaim myself, my health, my joy, and my voice wasn’t easy, but it’s the reason I do this work today. Breaking free from generational cycles and healing from trauma became my life’s mission.
When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me hiking, reading, cooking, belly dancing, yoga, at a good summer concert (especially Hozier and Dave Matthews Band), listening to 90s Grunge, R&B, and HipHop while tending to my ever-growing plant family, losing myself in a good craft project, or gathering with friends for full moons and bonfires.
Halloween is a lifestyle for me and I’m a Leo sun, Aries moon, and Taurus rising, which explains my fiery determination and grounded personality.
I dream of owning and restoring a Victorian house with a big garden. Not surprising but my favorite place in the world is Salem, MA (I’m also a descendant of a witch trial victim).
I have an incredible daughter, daughter-in-law, dad, husky named Bo, and my cat, Nadja.
I’m a progressive, intersectional feminist and pro-sex worker (and former one). I’m laid back and if we work together, you’ll get all of me—my humor, honesty, and commitment to creating spaces where you are seen, valued, and celebrated.
I believe in living real, messy, with room to grow and be exactly who we’re meant to be.
Areas of Expertise
Explore key areas where somatic practices, trauma-informed coaching, and parts work can help you release trauma, reconnect with yourself, and create lasting change.
Emotional Stability
Feel calm and steady, even when life feels overwhelming.
Calm Stress & Anxiety: Learn simple tools to ease your racing thoughts and ground yourself.
End Survival Mode: Stop feeling stuck in “fight or flight” and start living fully.
Emotional Confidence: Trust your feelings and stop feeling like they’re in control of you.
Healthy Relationships
End old patterns and feel safe opening up.
Heal Attachment Patterns: Open up and move toward secure, fulfilling relationships.
Set Boundaries with Ease: Say no and express your needs without guilt or fear of rejection.
Build Intimacy: Let go of habits that keep you guarded and create trust.
Confidence & Self-Worth
Feel secure in who you are and the life you’re building.
Heal the Inner Critic: Shift “I’m not enough,” to “I’m worthy and enough.”
Body Confidence: Let go of shame and feel more at home in your skin.
Trust yourself: Stop second-guessing yourself and trust your body’s needs and intuition to guide your choices.
Releasing Trauma
Feel lighter & free of the weight from the past.
Release Trauma from Your Body: Let go of pain and tension you’ve carried for years.
Break Generational Cycles: Stop repeating old habits and patterns and address toxic dynamics.
Process Emotional Pain: Heal past wounds without feeling overwhelmed.
Navigating Life Transitions
Find clarity during life’s big changes.
Start Fresh: Whether it’s a career shift, relationship change, or personal growth, move forward with confidence.
Aligned Decisions: Easily and confidently take action on your goals and needs.
Life Clarity: Redefine what success and happiness mean to you.
Career & Business Sucess
Grow your career or business without burnout.
Quiet Perfectionism & Imposter Syndrome: Take action with confidence and let go of “not enough.”
ADHD-Friendly Solutions: Build routines that work your brain and make tasks feel achievable.
Sustainable Growth: Align your work with your values and well-being.
My Credentials
With over 20 years of experience and 20,000+ clients served; I’m committed to providing trauma-informed, somatic healing that truly addresses the needs of the whole person.
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certification – The Embody Lab, 2022
Healing Intergenerational Trauma Certification – The Embody Lab, 2021
Inner Healing Journey & Resilience and Thrive Trainings – The Embody Lab, 2021
Broken Connections: Experiential Strategies for Trauma and Attachment with Dr. Diane Poole Heller, 2021
Anti-Racist Academy with Nima Mohammed, 2021
Vagina-Vulva-Pussy with Mangala Holland, 2021
VITA™ Coaching Method Certification for Sex, Love, and Relationships – 2019-2021
Anti-Racism and LGBTQ+ Diversity & Inclusion Training with Nikka Karli, 2019-2020
Crystal Egg Training with Layla Martin, 2019
The Abundant Life with Lisa Nichols, 2018
Comparative Studies in Sociology, Women’s Health & Sexuality Studies – The Ohio State University, 1999-2006
Client Love
Featured Interviews and Articles
I’m grateful to have been featured in interviews and articles discussing trauma, embodiment, and healing. These conversations allow me to share my insights, experience, and mission with a wider audience.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
If you’re ready to move beyond old patterns and build a life that feels aligned, resilient, and fulfilling, let’s connect. I’m here to support you every step of the way